How can I stop myself from getting emotionally attached to some guys?

i feel ya! the difficult thing is that we are females and we are emotional beings so detaching emotionally is so difficult. the only time i could do it was when i met one guy who i was so physically attracted to but had absolutely no connection with mentally or emotionally. it was cool for a while but then i felt slutty and gross so we had to stop. in the short run, yeah it is fun to mess around and get that release but in the long run, it pays to be patient and keep to yourself. i did the whole mindless sex thing and it was fun for a while but after that it is meaningless. now i am in a committed relationship and it is great. id wait for someone you care about, its better when you love each other anyway. good luck tho! use protection!